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dance, i have seen many times, done many a times but didn't made me cry ever. after watching a vedio of a girl and a boy. in which the boy was not having one of his leg and the girl was not having her eyes. but they showed love and affection with eachother in that dance. that dance might be for last 8 minutes but that dance erected my hairs. you must also watch that vedio.

it is just an idea of politicians to creat an issue on land. as the land in kashmir was given to Shrine board. which was taken for the good of people or for people so that people going on the way to their holy place of lord SHIVA that is AMARNATH.
i don't know why these people who fight with each other on the words or issue created by politicians for their own popularity. why people fight on the name of religions. their are some guys or number or guys who are given some amount of money. they are given money and their internal soul is made so that they only like to kill others for the sake of their of money. even they dont think about their family or of about others family.
there many reasons due to which a country or a state stops in its own development including individuals. this is one the reason.
people have to think by their own for their future or about others future.
dont get in the talks of politicians, they just use guys for their own sake.

with kids, the only way to behave with them is only love, this may only the way but sometimes showing a bit of anger. but this doesn't including beating them on their cheeks or on their anywhere. show their anger to them only.
i think and do beleive that, if we behave like nature then every thing will be under control. as nature reacts on situations. nature show it anger through rain, floods and many other way when it is disturbed or when it becomes excess to it. only at that time the nature reacts. similarly if we keeps our behaviour with kids then kids will groom, grow or nurture easily.
showing only one kind of behaviour may harm the kid growth and his/her whole development.
for showing differnet bahave, you first have to be different at different situation. play different role with him.
that will help a lot.

"kids are real god on earth"
there are no doubt in these words, these needs no explaination. when a small infant or a a new born baby takes birth, doesn't knows anything. mother starts feeding him, where baby doesn't know anything. what is right and wrong.
new born baby of any human being or any creatures, what they really need at thet time is only love and nothing else. what they understand only is love and affection. which is the truth of life. but as baby grows, starts learning goods and bads, which makes able to define each and every thing and he is not remain in love to that depth in which it/he/she was earlier.
later, in his teen age or in it/shis/her full grown age again starts to find true love. which can remain for long life until death. this does means, that beside of our work we have to have and need love with eachother everytime, so we can keep that love in mind and give our whole to tha. that love can be for parents, friend, for anybody, for a country, for work.
again at old age we do need love which can handle us, and at thetime of deathwe remember that who we love in our life the most but not the enemy or the worst one. so love should and always be with us at every moment of life, to move our life in smoother manner.
so give love, share love with every one.
to be continued about kids later

the ability to take decisions doesn't comes by reading any books, by copying others decisions. the decision should be taken according to the situations which may happen in the way after taking decision. but sometimes thinking delays and the right time for taking decisions passes away. so there may be another way, follow your mind and make it ready to face any problem.
sometimes the age group, friend circle effects, parents respsibility handling ability also helps and many other reasons would be ther for handling decisions.
A child, learns first learns from his parent's behaviour to different problems. after this, the parents should give the child some responsibilties for handlingin his own manner. after assigninig, they should have an eye on the steps of the child and follow him where he/she is wrong in handling problems. this helps a lot to any parents who want their child to become their child a good and intelligent person.
the problem comes with the younger children who are having their elder ones. cause each responsiibilty comes after him. this thing must be understood by the parents. this reaso can become an obstacle in younger child growth.
now decions makes us able " either the person is educated or not" but if he/she knows how to handle any problem the he/she can reach anywhere beyond their destiny.
i discussed acase only and further cases can be solved in a bit similar manner.

my best friend or my childhood friend who is as my brother now. we share each and every thing with eachother, his views and my views are a bit different but we both are having helping nature, nice and similar thought about future and many things in which we match.
now, he is admitted in hospital, earlier he was taking medicine for his lungs pain. he later came to know through ctscan that his lungs are being filled with water. the doctor told him that you are having symptoms of T.B. so the doctor told him to take medicine of that disease. which he not having. i couldn't believe how these doctors can do with body of the patient, they only think that the patient is only a part of their experiment and they can perform work and discovery on that.
how the doctors have become now.
after that he went to AIIMS, where he was told he is not having T.B, then his medicine changed and he got good medicines. he later also old that he has to face a surgery for that chest pain. the pain was due to that water and an insect which was roaming around in his lungs. that insect enetred through food. may be due to meat, or unhighinic food. doctor told him that he was carrying that disease from a duration of more that 10 years. whise symptoms were appearing now.
the dispensery head of place or location was not ready to give him permission fo his treatment in any private hospital . she was insisiting on govt. hospital or through AIIMS. AIIMS was lagging of the doctor at that time, so my friemd also delayed of his treatment. later after two months, the doctors of AIIMS, write a letter to the head for treatment in private hospitals.
now he is being treated well in a private hospital through that charge which is being paid by the govt.. he was having a major operation a fews days ago. now he is in well condition and my brave friend now and at that time of operation too was acting like a super hro who don't feel any seviour pain of any kind. i and almost each doctor liked his spirit of his efficiency and braveness.
my friend, without him i feel alone and life like waste in this world. my best friend. i pray to god that now his whole life should be well and filled of happiness and full of joy.

through this, i am just giving light on a part of life on the condition of indian women.
as india is a developing country, girls and ladies are making their own place and names in this growing world through their studies and hard work. the large number of gradutes are being produced by INDIA now in all our the world. and girls conditions are raising from earlier time,now.
but still, girls are facing many problems like dowry, divorces , rapes, etc. still girls which are marrying has to apy dowry either in the way of cash, or in other way. this raises disputes sometime in the life of husband and wife, that later bring towards divorce. As their are many communities in in INDIA, have their own faiths and beliefs on marriage. girls are sell in lakhs, or with home and cars to the husband's side. but after that too, girls are not happy in the inlaws'house. the major reason behind this is understanding. their are still people who donot want to cop-up with the newly brought bride to their home, who is not aware of about the inlaws' house. this may be one aspect only.
there are other aspects like, husband may be having habit of drinking, gambling that brings also a married life to an end soon. but shocking thing is this, everyone is aware of this fact so why they too drink alcohol. this is the story of almost every house of INDIA too. but girls or women which are brought to new house, thinks bounded to themselves because of the money spended by her parents on the marriage. they make them selves a slave and lives in that hell like home for saving their parents name and sake.
CONCLUSION:- with this changing time, girls has to change their thoughts and should take some decision for their own sake for saving their precious life for themselves. they have to do something from their decision only. if they become brave or they become tougher from their own side then all the cases like rapes, dowry demanding will and surely get reduced by their own. and one suggestion for boy side is that, they have to keep in mind for their sisters too. in changing INDIA.

work out is necessary and must for each and every person either for man or woman. work out relaxes the body to that extent that we require to run our body again in a good manner.
some guys thinks that picking heavy weight is exercise or going gym regularly is gym. In actual words, there are two kinds of workout. one is for external body that makes our body tougher and more resistive from outside. another is the soul relaxation that is attained through sitting in relax manner, by enjoying nature, by practicing meditation, and by listninig any kind of music that relaxes our soul. some guys relaxes by dancing, some by going for walks, or many other ways are there for workout. but we should keep in mind that our workout should be regular cause it makes our body habitual for relaxation and keeps our mind and body calm.
workout through any way reduces anger in us which can bring us to a dangerous disease of brain hamaradge,brain tumor, BP low or high. so daily workout also reduces this.
i told you these some ways to do workouts in my words.
by regular workout and drinking lot of water, one cannot be ill ever. this is a very simple remedy for keeping ouselves away from costly and monery sucker medicines.

RAPE, a shocking, a crime, a distructive act,etc. i am writing this on basis of my thoughts and imaginations and views from many people.
RAPE, this word have many senses, have many of its type, many of its effects. but these all brings a word crime.
defining in manner of sense, some shows their sympathy with the victim of it,some guys of younger age may sometime make fun of this word, but the real and the true effect can only be see by that persons who feels the feeling of that raped victim. this should be understood well and some conclusions must be taken by individuals. because always individuals starts a work and that is carried on by many.
kinds of rape:- forced rape, emotionally raped, marital rape, rape by the faithful one, etc.
the forced rape, we may all know what is that, so i come to the point of protection from this force of action. first the girl should always have a frequent eye on what is going on around him that is she should be alert always. if any girl is coming from work at late night then she should have mobile and have emergency and brothers or any friends numbers who can come at any time for help as soon as possible. girl at that time should get tie her hairs and first search some thing to hit hard that stranger. girl should have to keep in mind that anything can happen so they should take that way which is easier to reach home as soon. never have full faith on strangers.
because if you create some resistance in the way that guy who is going to or may attempt that crime. he may leave you because of your own strenght and ability to strike. you have to at that time have to so hard that your one srike can hurt him so hard that he may return to his own way. this was for forced rape.
emotoinally raped:- girls, first and most important is, you have to have faith and confidence on yourself. girls usually give their whole for their strong relationship, if in case of beloved one who promised you that i will marry you so lets do that. this is wrong, if he loves you then he will accept you later you. please. dont have full faith on anybody, for your own life. rape can be done in this way also.
rapist always tries to find that girl who are less strong and unconfident and has lesss strength in them. so be strong.
if you want to meet any unknown person then meet him at public place, note his each activity,and donot let your self to come in his butter words.
faithfulone:- some relatives in house and within family may have that bad eye. so girls of any age should not be left alone in the house with that relative until his bevahiour is not known fully.Elder girls who are in this situation, should fight and make him so that he never try to do so in life again ever. try to take help of parents, if can't do so then accompany with some girls and then beat him hard and make him feel shy enough on his deed.

CONCLUSION:- FIRST PROTECTION CAN BE DONE BY YOURSELF ONLY. STAY ALERT ALWAYS. FIGHT BACK IS THE ONLY WAY. DON'T LET YOUR SELF ON PLATES OF OTHERS TO HAVE YOU EASILY.

Dreams usually,we all see at night while sleeping. but the right and the true dream is that what we see from our open eyes. what we think, what we can do to built our future. they are the true dreams. and this statement is also true that " IF SOMEBODY DOESN'T SEE DREAMS THEN HE IS NOT LIVING LIFE".
In the same manner all have the right to see dreams and so of fulfilling them anyhow.
so, my dream is to serve the people,people may be of any age group, they may be of old age, small kids. i want to serve those who are not served by anyone.
as small kids who are living on the roadside, somewhere in buildings which are in under construction. old age people who are not served by their own children. i want to built the career of those kids so that they can come in use of their own and of others. i want them to be useful and productive. i want them to be able to get minimum and required and higher degrees also in studies.
About the old age people, let them first feel that they are not old. they have made their life heaven earlier in their working days with their hard work. I want to tell them they can do so again by their small and easy efforts now at their old age also. i want to return their younger and energetic age back again by anyhow(by encouraging them,by regular workout of how much they are able or anyhow ). cause eah and everyone either he/she is in old age want to remain independent and free of any boundages.
all this will come into me, from my own hardwork now in this age. so the my aim is to serve people. this dream is acting in me as a petrol in car. this leads me always ready to go faster for my aim.
I want and i know too many guys have thoughts like me. which can bring some new conclusion and help for peopleliving dependly on others.