through this, i am just giving light on a part of life on the condition of indian women.
as india is a developing country, girls and ladies are making their own place and names in this growing world through their studies and hard work. the large number of gradutes are being produced by INDIA now in all our the world. and girls conditions are raising from earlier time,now.
but still, girls are facing many problems like dowry, divorces , rapes, etc. still girls which are marrying has to apy dowry either in the way of cash, or in other way. this raises disputes sometime in the life of husband and wife, that later bring towards divorce. As their are many communities in in INDIA, have their own faiths and beliefs on marriage. girls are sell in lakhs, or with home and cars to the husband's side. but after that too, girls are not happy in the inlaws'house. the major reason behind this is understanding. their are still people who donot want to cop-up with the newly brought bride to their home, who is not aware of about the inlaws' house. this may be one aspect only.
there are other aspects like, husband may be having habit of drinking, gambling that brings also a married life to an end soon. but shocking thing is this, everyone is aware of this fact so why they too drink alcohol. this is the story of almost every house of INDIA too. but girls or women which are brought to new house, thinks bounded to themselves because of the money spended by her parents on the marriage. they make them selves a slave and lives in that hell like home for saving their parents name and sake.
CONCLUSION:- with this changing time, girls has to change their thoughts and should take some decision for their own sake for saving their precious life for themselves. they have to do something from their decision only. if they become brave or they become tougher from their own side then all the cases like rapes, dowry demanding will and surely get reduced by their own. and one suggestion for boy side is that, they have to keep in mind for their sisters too. in changing INDIA.
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indian married women
@ 2008-06-20 – 19:23:49
