mydays

love in my sense is not to have my love but to have all his/her behaviour in me. the love doesn't tells us to have physical or any kind of work that involves physical touch. the love does means that, if all the nature of the beloved one comes in us. or in other words, "THE BELOVED ONE COMES INTO US". if it doesn't happens then, then we are just wasting our time or passing our time in that.
love can't be defined in books,cant't defined in words, can't express by others but it can be felt by self. so if you want to feel that then start loving other.
and if someone grabs you froms your self. and if you don't remain in your self or you are in your conntrol. then you are in love. love may start with attraction but if attraction came due to sex feeling then you are not in love. so keep aside that sex feeling or vulgar feeling. then have an eye on your self's heart. feeling is love is good.
love can be key for opening the lock of knowing ourself.
conclusion:- love is the way toward each destiny.

my day include many views for any persons, actually they are just the thoughts which comes in mind to check myself and others. Because of our views, we can analyse any other unknown person. this we usually do in our daily life. the best way according to me is to check each person(wather it is in person or professionally) with many views as an example:
check the ability, the doubts in his mind, check what his/her habbits are, check what kind of response he/she gives to the different siuations i.e, how he/she acts in joy,in anger. check the emotional limits of the person. these sre some of the point of view of many points. but the most important is to know what you are ?,how you deals, and what are your abilities.
In my sense if a person knows himself, then the ability to know other comes by itself.
way to have many views
views are many, to know this, we first sit in a quite room and then analyse our own views about ourselves then about others. note down the points in a diary. you can sit daily,twice a week or once a week. this will bring faith and confidence on self.
write about 5 to 10 points bout anything or person you think and then check how the person or thing is acting according to points.
and many more things according to your creativity you can gain.

sufi songs or sufi music or sufi sangeet in india, gives and nourishes,relaxes the soul. it is a medicine in my words for the whole body and internal soul. each and every nerve of the body get a sensation which cant be feel by anyother work. the sufi songs will take you to the seventh heaven if it exist or it will take you that stage where no thoughts and strains exist.
the best singers of sufi are Wadli brothers of Punjab,INDIA and Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan of PAKISTAN. they are so that cant be beaten by anyone. NFAK the FATHER of sufi songs has died now but he is living every where in his songs.
The sufi songs gives knowledge about our real and true work in this life. the words of songs tells us to do maximum work and efforts to bring happiness in others and ours own life. Words tells us to remain calm and and to reach to the supreme power who is in the middle of our eyes, who is in us that is the true love with our loved one. they tell us never to break the herst of our beloved one. they tell us tha, the beloved may be so rude to us but our love to him never to be reduce by a minor percent. cause he is the one who brought love light in our heart. he brought the excitment or any other type of feeling which a real lover feels about his beloved one.
the touch of sufi words or songs gives birth to real love(not that include any physical relation.)[it includes internal soul relation and feelings of love which doesnot need any touch or anykind of fault in relations. ] it tells us to stay in touch with beloved one even when he/she/any other is not with us. that is the the true love in my sense.

today, in my days of mine,i will include my days with my guitar music teachers.
i started to learn guitar when i was in 9th standard, i got in contact with my first teacher from my brother's friend's contact with the teacher.he was an engineer in flux industry.(but he was on leave due o his accident while driving bike).he taught me guitar first type which is played in INDIA that is HAWAIN, this type of guitar has a fingure size rod and some nails to wear on fingure. and it produces sound that is classical type. i first learnt to play sargam on that guitar. it's wires have good height from the wooden rod of it. a typical classical INDIAN type guitar. it also needs a lot of practice. I learned approx 2-3 months from him. after then he left from my area where i was living. and due to my studies i couldn't approach him. he made my base for playing guitar and he gave birth of intrest in me for music, after then i continued at home. i cant forget the blessings of his on me for that music learning ability. thanx a lot of him.
after that i got my second teacher, he was my tanent, he was living at my home's first floor. he was also an engg. , he was a player at radio earlier before he joined a company for engg. work. he was also an excellent talented teacher. i practiced with him on spanish guitar. i learnt around 50-60 songs from him.
for being a good player for guitar, practice in a day for min. hour is required. and i did that and now i can play anything from the grace of my teachers. they were superb.
conclusion:- according to me we should never forget our techer and should keep a visual picture in our heart of them. before playing guitar we should think about them and sould pray to them for their grace and blessing on us. it will make our soul more pure and makes us to reach excellece.

waaoooooooo, The school days, i cant forget them, they were so exciting and funniest,can't be explained in some few words of joy. I joined a new school in 11th standard, our class teacher was shikha benerjee, she used to bebe very strict and discipilined. although she never left her hands on somebody(that is she never slapped anyone,never touched anyone) but on the first day,we heared from our seniors that she do her strictness with talks only,and she can make someone feel so ashamed from her talks and saying only. so the seniors told us to be careful about her work.
hahaha but me and my group boys were so naughty and ours deeds were so idiotic that each and every teacher of our subject noticed that we were the bad and disturbing elements of the class. we used to whistle sometimes,sometimes we change and kept the books of somebody in somebody's bag. and some times we used to stick bubblegum on somebody's seats and many things as like these. but we never misbehaved with teachers ever in the school. the thought of games pariod from the day started comes in our mind and we used to wait for that only.
but these things also affected our studies so we were called in staff room by our class teacher and we were given a good lecture to concentrate on our studies first. after that we studied harder and we 4 friends got 70-75% in the class. that days were so memorable and can't be forget ever.
we friends still laughs on our that days, when we ever sit together.
now we all have choosen different ways for our further life but we still sit to remain our friendship with eachother forever.
I will tell you more about that daays sometim later. see you gus.

Now a days, my father is inspiring me alot. althoufh he has been retired from his govt. job but still he is doing work with an Advocate. he has made himself more busier than earlier he was hile in his job. Earlier i and my elder brother were both asking him as "dad why you are doing this work with advocate" but now i understood him that "he is living like a soldier who never stops until he dies". he is working hard there too.
Inspired from him i also started working hard in my studies,so that i can give what my father needs or what my parents needs. i learnt from him that "a man is dead without work". i like my dad and i love him thats why. he taught us from childhood to be consistent in work and with whole heartedness. I help my father in his work at home in those things in computer,with which he is not aware of. as in microsoft word and excel in which he usually faces some problem. from this i came to a conclusion that my father can be a role modal for those retired and not workin

In my day to day talks, i would like to tell about the crimes in delhi, thecapital of india.

The crime as you all aware of this word but in delhi the meaning of crime is different, it includes killings of old agers, rape cases in delhi(everywhere in trains,in the city,in the subways,anywhere), robbery,bank robbery,etc.
the old agers are most widely killed by their servants,sometimes even by their children. these killing may be done because of reasons like money,insurance money after death or might be any reasons. But as a whole they are not safe in delhi. according to me the old agers first have an eye on their grown up children and should carry a thought that this may happen to them also, so they should think about themselves first and then their kid's financial conditions. they have to take some steps by their own.
and rape cases,
the girls in delhi are not safe anywhere, the conditions are so worst, that girls cant get out on delhi roads alone after 9 pm in night. they cant go alone veen to buy some food from the market area. they are taunted,they are abussed,and so many things. even in the daily passenger trains,even in ac trains which are also given security by the railway police still they are not safe. as i get, the girls or foriegner have to keep in mind about this, they should have the emergency no. of police or of their known persons. they should carry sprays with them in their purses or in pocket.
each and everyone should help eachother, if we dont do this time then this may happen with us someday.
conclusion:- help each other against crime.

Music is solely connected to love. A person who is not in love with the instrument,or with any person cant feel the qulity and power of music. I may not be able to define MUSIC in my words but i can say music is a drink of soul,power of mind and love for the heart feelings. These words may not be enough but they can say something which can touch the soul. Music in my sense cnnect me to the unknown god who is anywhere hiding in the music and inside me.
music makes me able to get connected with the supreme soul.
love and music makes a person sweeter and yummy as the taste of the choclate(lol in my words). in my regular routine, i try to give atleast half or 1 hour in 24 hours to my guitar playing. which makes me so relax that i forget eachand every tension if there is any. I cant explain the feel of the strings. oooooooooooopppppppssssssssss they give me he feel of a shock and vibration .
coclusion:- each and everyone should get connected to music anyhow to make his/her li
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As I belong to a family from a good and middle level(that is not so rich nor poor,it lies in between them).i like to write my daily routines,i write what i felt in my whole day and how my day gone(good,bad or ordinary). A little instance which happened with me in some past days,i met with a girl who is my college class fellow. earlier she was only my friend and i treated her like that only but some days later i start laughing and started spending my time with her. we came close a bit too. in this period,i made a joke with her that i am in love with her and said i love you,she at that moment asked me why you love me. then i was not able to answered her.
Next day in the class room, she again asked me on a paper that why i love her,she wants to know the reason. i sudden said, i love you because of your nature with me and your nature with others. She after that also liked to spent her time with me more as compared to earlier.
I, in between her and my talks or while we were talking lonely somewhere in library or at some other place, i start saying repeatedly to her that i love youluv umore than 100 times a day,or a single word which came from my mouth for her was luv with u. and nothing else. She is too caring for me as i do care for her. she is my heart and mine is her's now. she is too beautiful from soul. now we take care of each other too. but we both are not having any future plans for marriage and some thing else nor we think about future. we both are feeling enjoying our love with eachother. so we cant forget this precious and uncompareable time in our future.
CONCLUSION:- spent life with love and care for others(specially for beloved one if any)

A hindi song for her:-